How to Have Great Sex

According to research, common sense and the gospel here is how to have great sex:

1. Get Married!!! According to various studies married people have the most satisfying sex lives. Make sense right? There is much security and safety in a committed and enduring relationship.
2. Love your spouse more than yourself. When you are caring more about them and focusing on them you create more happiness and love. You literally fall in love more when you serve your spouse, and that definitely makes making love more easy and satisfying.
3. Have open lines of communication. Not just about sex, but about everything. It is so much nicer to first share your thoughts, and feelings before you share your bed.
4. Keep the flame alive. Keep things romantic with yourselves. Write each other love notes. Send flirty texts. Compliment your spouse. Date each other.

Jefferey R. Holland in his wonderful talk Souls, Symbols, and Sacraments said this about marital intimacy, 

"May I suggest that human intimacy, that sacred, 

physical union ordained of God for a married couple, deals 

with a symbol that demands special sanctity. Such an act of 

love between a man and a woman is — or certainly was 

ordained to be — a symbol of total union: union of their 

hearts, their hopes, their lives, their love, their family, their 

future, their everything. It is a symbol that we try to suggest 

in the temple with a word like seal."